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My daughter, too, has not had surgery. She is about a prader 3. We made this decision and I feel it was right for my daughter but the thing is with this decision, either "choice" made could allow for doubts. But she is only 6 so I cannot help you answer your questions. They are good questions. Questions that I have asked myself for my daughter when she is your age.
I am wondering if you can answer some questions. If not I completley understand. Did you need vaginal surgery prepuberty to allow space for blood flow? How do you feel about the fact that your parents choose no surgery for you? Are you glad that they left you intact so that you could make the decision yorself of whether or not to have surgery? Was childhood ever tough because of not having surgery? You sound like a very intelligent young woman with a good head on her shoulders who is self confident and takes care of herself. I wish I could smooth the bumps of life for you as well as my daughter but I can't. Sometimes in life we ask advice but ultimately make the decisions ourselves and learn through these choices. No one but you knows whether or not you are ready to confide in another and be sexually active. When you are ready you will know. I respect that you are asking advice and planning for the future. I hope for the very best for you! Take care, Julia
