Don't make the mistake some make in thinking that alternative medicine can replace the daily hormones--it can't. We also have a lot of respect for reflexology (I use it on my wife and kids routinely) but that's in conjunction with the medicine prescribed.
Surgery, especially at your age, is a personal choice. It may be completely unnecessary if you meet the right kind of guy who will love you for you, and not how well you fit a textbook description of "normal". I tend to think that that kind of guy would be worth waiting for since he would be the kind of husband that would make life easier to face.
Take the meds. Use the reflexology to boost the effectiveness of the conventional treatment. And make the decision about surgery based on people whose opinions are worth worrying about.
