Hi I just wanted to say yes I am speaking from experience and since this is the controversy board I will go into a little more detail.
God positioned our clitoris where is it perfectly and for a specific reason, the friction from intercourse stimulates this clitoris perfectly in "missionary" position. So one with an enlarged clitoris that is happy with the enlarged clitoris can get tons and tons of satisfaction and stimulation...
There is one little drawback, because it does stick out during times of friction, it is possible for the clitoris to receive a little too much friction, but hey....most of the time it's worth it and wonderful.
Now about my own experience, I was not happy with it as it made me feel like I was a freak and actually impaired my ability (at times) to receive satisfaction because I worried about it sticking out. It also made me feel less of a woman, less feminine. Now if I were self-confident and loved myself then maybe I would have thought someone would love me like I was.....at the time that idea would have been impossible for me to conceive because of my low self esteem. I had NO ONE to talk about this to. So those children that do have loving parents and a strong support system may not ever feel like I did. Honestly sometimes I miss the *strong abilities* I used to have but honestly I can't say I regret having the surgery done.
About the rude comment from your friend, male or female that was still weird, maybe even more weird coming from a woman.
Good luck anyway, you are doing what you are suupose to do for your child and thats all she can ask for.....my mom still cannot pronounce congenital adrenal hyperplasia...lol.... my support system :op Take care