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re: Please watch what you post Aug. 17th, 2006 6:47pm
Dear Danny,
I knowthat you weren't talking to Maria but rather me and I know you can tell who I am.
All these surgeries were done to me for other people. The surgeries at five were done for other people and the surgery for vaginal stenosis was done for other people and that made sexual intercourse terrible even with someone I cared about (yes like you,I only believe in sex w/ marriage0 But if this husband can get his wife to see that the surgery is for her mostly see that she has a part in it also then sex just might get better and parents or like the nice lady Natalie that piped in - don't quite get it that because of all the exams we endure that sexual relationships with anyone you aren't into regardless if marriage is involved or and this is with respect really but if the person you are with isn't as sexual (but can improve- nibble a ear) then it is so much like the exams that we went through and that makes sex difficult If you get this then get if not ....please delete and I don't have trouble with that. I' ve talked with other men and women that have CAH that agree with me that anything sexual does for awhile remind you feel like....... bring back those exams and one freeezes goes into oneself and thus a husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, wife just isn't going to be welcomed into the locked box ...one has to total let go of the past for that time period or as a wife with the husband for example he isn't getting into the fortress : ) because to much like the exams. Know the vaginal canal might be closed from vaginal stenosis and that two day surgery might help or he might be able to help her - the area does stretch but it isn't going to work if she isn't into it w/ the most sexual organ and that as you know is the mind. Buy toys and have a good time.
it's OK .....You can delete but if you do then I also ask that you delete everything that I've ever written too.
Sex? I have a great time even with my mutilated genitals and I'm 40 pounds over weight. Yep, been in love twice and I do think this is all much better w/ marriage so like Maria I was curious as to what he was up to and I'm really to the point becasue if he thinks that just a surgical procedure is goingto make this better then I would say from experince and talking with other men and women that have SVCAH and SWCAH that isn't the only thing going on here.
I like irish men because they are really romatic and they just well are better in the way they support meaning they are that good and can make the exams all go away but I was w/ this amn I really liked/ wanted me to marry him (wasn't Irish) but he wasn't experienced in bed and that made it harder for me at the time because of everything to do with CAH.
Delete it all buddy ...it's fine with me.
Natalie - I wish that had your life instead of mine and all the best.
