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re: re: re: re: re: re: re: were going to have surgury - yes you are!! Mar. 12th, 2007 8:47am
I think you are so right. I have always waited because I didn't want to do something she wouldn't want, or feel like I didn't love for who she is or the way she was born. I want her to feel good about her self and never to question my love for her. The day she said I want to have surgery all I could think was thank god. I always felt like me not makeing a dission was a cop out. It just was to hard. Even when my veiws were not to have surgery and let the kids make there own choice, I never thought anything bad about parents who chose surgery. Because this all is so hard. I really wish parents on this site remember what a hard thing that we are faced with. And there aren't many people who even know what any of this feels like, My daughter was born and I thought she was a boy for five days we took her home, how do you deal with that. How do you get threw that. Well I just went on never really facing what was happening. samantha was very sick for about two years. She was always in the hospital and the doctors wern't even sure she would make it. But she did and she is a wonderful smart little. Wise above her years. I love her so much And your very right I don't ever want to see someone cause her any pain. The worse part is I can't make it stop. But I'm sure we'll get threw all this, god is with us. God would have never blessed me with Samantha if he didn't think we could get threw it.
