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i have a 2year old little girl with swcah and she is going for her second surgery. you know when the doctors came into the room after she was born to tell me if they did not know if i had a little boy or girl and explaned to me about ambigious genitalia i remember one of the doctors saying you might want to keep it quiet and stick to i had a little boy till they find out. now i look back and think what is such a secret. i have read some post where moms ask what do you tell people and i tell people the truth. i tell people the basic and if there interested i tell them everything. well let me get back to point i was wondering if i could talk to you because now that she is getting older and had the first surgery she still does not look like most woman down in that area and this second surgery is to make her clitiours smaller so i am so scared how this will affect her as a adult. i think as a child it will not because she is beautiful and by looking at her you would never think anything is different but once she thinks about being sexualy active i wonder how this will affect her. im sorry if its to personal it just sounds like from what you typed you would be the perfect person to ask and i don't know if you needed as much reconstruction as my daughter did. i was reading some post on the kids board and there was a young girl ashamed to date because of her condition and i don't get it because she is so young that im sure she is not talking about sex so why be ashamed. or at least thats what i want to know but i don't feel comfortable asking a kid this so when i read yours i thought what the hell i'll ask you. lol
