It does help that I got a formal letter of apology from the hospital that stated in retrospect that I never should of been changed and they at least ask aboout some things know. They meant well with their judgement call but they don't have to live with what they did.
Asking would of helped but one can't change the past.
They think if you externally change something that it will solve everything but it only made me feel fake.
People would ask if I was male or female and it would be yessss you get it!
I was at a Wendy's wearing the female clothes and long hair but didn't connect when the lady told me ma'am we are out of the chocolate frosty. She was looking at me right in the face and kept going ma'am, ma'am ma'am .... Ms. Ms. Ms!!!!!!!!!! no chocolate and it got to me that the gender que didn't register.
Being female is like a hobby at it's best and worst forced into by scapel.
