Dear Averysmom,
I feel my words might of been taken in not the manner they were intended.
I've had lots of medical things done to me.
It was aways a relief to get in and get started and on with the journey no matter what the out come.
Just take things as they come.
The bigger issue is to make your kids favorite dinner - Spaggetti or something and give over to the medical people to help with what you think and their judgement.
If you put on being strong then so will your kid.
If you try and maintain business as usual then you will have the inner glow to deal if something comes up.
Fretting will get you sick and your kid doesn't need that.