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re: re: re: help me please help me May. 24th, 2008 5:45pm
First I want to tell you that we are here for you. Second, find a local clinic in the yellow pages. Planned Parenthood or there is a Christian oraganization called Care Net, both places can be found in all 50 states. They can present you with your options and also provide you with support. Also there is an adoption process that's called open adoption where the birth mom gets to choose the parents for her baby and also keep in contact with them if they want to.
Also about your dad, I highly urge to talk to someone about the abuse. It is not safe for you or your brother and I can say this because my dad was also abusive and us seeing him even everyother weekend did a lot of damage and left of with baggage that I personally have been struggling with for years. It takes many years to rid yourself of awful and hurtful acts that are done to us by people we are suppose to love and trust and now you have been raped, that's a lot for someone so young as you to carry.
Please I urge you to find a trusted adult to confide in, whether a female relative, guidance counselor, relgious person, or even a friend's mother, someone who can point you towarsds a way out of this situation and also and most of all give you the personal and present support you need, beucase we here can listen and advise but we can not physically put our arms around you.