Thanks all for your input and insight.
Its hard for me to know what what to expect and maybe taht is why i think loud and go on rambling.....my husband thinks i will go mad if i dont stop worrying, well either that or go into depression or something, he is equally concerned but maybe not as much as i, his take on things is as foloows......
if god has chosen for us to a child with this condition so be it, we are blessed in every way, with all her medication and all... i live in th UK therefore i dont need to worry about medication supplies or how much it will cost for ops////but is that really the most important thing, dont we all just want our children to be healthy and normal.
Most ironically at my ultrasoung scan i was told i was having a boy, when i told my husband he did not jump up for joy... so as most women would i asked him why the indifferent response....he looked at me for a long time and said god has blessed us with the two most beautiful and full of life little girls and i love them both equally and if he chooses for us too have a son iwe will be blessed again regardless of the sex over which we have no control just want our child to be well and healthy.
Why is it that dads always seem to be more optimistic or is just there way of dealing with the situation.
I praise you all for all your strentgh i just hope that maybe one day i will have the same strength, courage and convictions, all i do at the moment is look at Hope and think what if?????
