Thankyou for your replies.
Just one point for clarification puposes.......Daddys girl, thankyou for your response it was nice to read a different angle on this although i did not expect it and it did upset me a little....i guess if anyone points a finger and implies that you may not love your child or are over reacting it hurts.
My baby is just that a baby.. until a few months ago i didnt know that CAH existed. i am a mum that wants to know everyting about it, everything and anything that could happen to my child.....so that i am well prepared.....this does NOT mean that i will love her any less....mothers love thier children irrespective of what they look like, because that is thier child....... i dont know if you have children if you do then you will know what i mean.
Thankyou all for your info....i had an endo appointment today i did voice my concerns...he was happy to know that i was so concerned and that i had my babys interest at heart, he answered most my questions but did emphasis that no one can guarantee what will happen in 10-15 years......but luckily her cah so far is well controlled.
i would like to say that a parents we are our childrens best advocate.......if in doubt is it not best to ask rather than keep things bottled up...i have to ask questions it is the only way i cope with things.
Thank you all